I have to say I wasn’t sure what to expect from the posts and recipes my friends would share with me about their loved ones they lost. I knew the posts would have delicious recipes, because every blogger I’ve shared here so far is very talented. The stories left me in complete wonderment; a joyful wonderment. The wonderment of awaiting the arrival of a sweet surprise.
One of the first people to respond to my request to participate in the series was Renee, from Magnolia Days. If I told you she had her story written, cake baked, and had it all sent to me within a matter of days, I would not be exaggerating.
Renee is amazing. She is kind and forever helpful. Everything Renee does is done with care and attention to detail.
Renee’s blog is full of delicious recipes. Some favorites of my favorite recipes of are hers are her: apple strudel, dulce de leche bundt cake, and her cheddar jalapeno sourdough bread. When you pop over to her blog you will see for yourself!
With Thanksgiving fast approaching, I am feeling that deep nostalgia for my dad. I am also feeling ever so grateful for my friends and my family. I am grateful for my friend Renee taking the time to share a memory of her dad and bake the most beautiful coconut cake. I have to say that coconut cake was a favorite cake of my dad’s, as well.
So let’s not wait a second longer…here is my friend Renee and her story.
Hello! I’m Renee from Magnolia Days. You may have seen me mentioned a few times here on this lovely blog. I’m one of the regular participants in Lora’s Bundt-A-Month and Twelve Loaves challenges. It’s been such fun to be a part of groups filled with passionate bakers. I was honored when Lora asked if I would contribute to her “Food Memory” series she started after receiving a great response to the tribute to her father in her post “An Italian Cake and Grief”.
Food memories and my dad – the two are so connected and intertwined for me it is hard to think of one without the other. I grew up watching my dad cook, grill, garden, fish, and enjoy the simple pleasures of it all. I remember riding on the tractor with him as he tilled the garden. There was the smell of the earth being churned up as the tines dug through the ground. It meant a few months later we would be stringing beans, shelling peas, husking corn, and slicing tomatoes.
The garden would soon stop producing in the fall. Another season would be upon us and family discussions of holiday meals would arise at the table. After I became older and started baking the conversation always lead to the same suggestion. My dad would lift his fork, point it at my mom or me and say “you could make a coconut cake”. Oh how he loved coconut cake. The holidays would not be the same without it.
We would make the same cake for him each time. It’s a recipe we got from someone (I forgot who) 30+ years ago. It was a simple one using a cake mix for the layers and then a mixture of sugar, sour cream, and coconut for the frosting. I had continued problems with the mixture on the top and sides of the cake. It never seemed to hold right. It usually dripped down and wound up as a puddle at the bottom. So I set out to change it up in a way I knew my dad would approve and to make the layers from scratch. The solution came with using a seven minute frosting for the top and sides and the mixture as the filling between the layers.
An important note: this cake takes three or more days to make. You need to plan ahead. The filling needs to soak into the layers for three days before you frost the top and sides of the cake. The result will be the most incredibly moist coconut cake with a fluffy frosting.
I lost my dad two years ago. I miss him greatly and have such fond memories of him with food and so much more. I’ve written about my dad and shared some of his recipes on my blog. His cornbread and beef stew are two of my favorites.
Thank you so much Lora for including me in your Food Memory series! I thoroughly enjoyed baking this cake and reminiscing over the times I enjoyed one with my dad.
Thank you, Renee, for being a part of #FoodMemory. Your cake is stunning!
My other Food Memory guest posters:
For the coconut filling
- 12 ounces frozen coconut, thawed
- 2 cups sugar
- 8 ounces sour cream
- For the yellow cake layers:
- 2 1/2 cups all-purpose flour
- 3 teaspoons baking powder
- 1/4 teaspoon salt
- 3/4 cup unsalted butter, at room temperature
- 1 1/4 cups sugar
- 1 teaspoon vanilla extract
- 3 eggs plus 1 egg yolk, at room temperature
- 1 cup whole milk, at room temperature
- For the seven minute frosting:
- 1/3 cup water
- 1 cup plus 2 tablespoons granulated sugar
- 3 large egg whites
- 1/4 teaspoon cream of tartar
- Pinch of salt
- 1 1/2 teaspoons vanilla extract
- Sweetened coconut flakes for garnish